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llywela ([personal profile] llywela) wrote2006-08-20 07:04 pm

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So, my mum phones me while I'm working on my last entry to tell me that my uncle Stan has got terminal cancer.

Apparently they used the little get-together today as an opportunity to tell those members of the family that were there, so that they could then spread the word to the rest of the clan. Which is now being done.

Prostate, discovered late, already spread to the bone. With treatment he could last five years. Could. Except that with treatment he already looks pretty bad, according to Deb. And Ruth isn't handling it, can't talk about it at all, which is why they've waited till they had a few people face to face to let the family know rather than phoning around.

Damn.

[identity profile] joe-sweden.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very sorry to hear that Jo. My thoughts are with your family, and you of course.

[identity profile] winniewoo.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh Jo-I'm so sorry

[identity profile] llywela13.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, Anwen, honey.

Your Winnie the Pooh avatar is fab!

[identity profile] llywela13.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, Wolfie.

[identity profile] bagpuss1966.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Awww hun - that's terrible. So sorry to read this - you have my total sympathy.

*hugs*

[identity profile] llywela13.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you, Janet

*hugs back*

I keep worrying about my uncle and aunt now. And their boys - their middle son lives in Japan with his family. If Stan goes downhill, I'm not sure they can afford to come over to visit anytime quickly :(

[identity profile] kelzies.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah shit I hate cancer. So sorry to hear that Jo :( My thoughts and with you and the family *hugs*

[identity profile] lhyna71.livejournal.com 2006-08-20 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry JO!!!
Life can be so cruel sometimes.!!! Hang in there. I will save a prayer for you and your family tonight!
*hugs JO tightly*

[identity profile] helloninja.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
That is terrible. I'm sorry for your family, and you of course.

Adding more names...

[identity profile] daphnis.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 05:13 am (UTC)(link)

When I get on my [mental] running prayer wheel, I'll add the names of 'Jo's Uncle Stan and Auntie Ruth' to the others I send hope and energy to. I wish I could do something more substantial, but I also send lots of hugs and comfort abroad to the whole family.

[identity profile] shaw012145.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear about this Jo. I know all about this because my late father had it. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[identity profile] leloo.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear this Jo, my thought are with you and your family. I lost my aunt to a brain tumor a few years ago so I know what you're going through *hugs*

[identity profile] koldism.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry Jo :( I hope your uncle pulls through the treatment.
It seems to me that you're really close with your family, and I wish the best of luck and peace of mind to you - and your mum, and Deb, and Ruth, and Small, and everyone connected to your uncle.

[identity profile] llywela13.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks, and yeah, me too. Sucks, huh. Thinking of your lot, too.

[identity profile] l23.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 10:28 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry about your news Jo. :(

[identity profile] wildcard-sej.livejournal.com 2006-08-21 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh dear, I'm so sorry - it's never a good time to receive that sort of news. *hugs*

[identity profile] justwolf.livejournal.com 2006-08-22 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Late, and reiterating everyone else, but just wanted to say how sorry I am too.

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_carly_/ 2006-08-25 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry to hear that, Jo x